the end of an era

My friend J. just called to tell me the women he’s been seeing off and on for about two years (most recently off) is pregnant with his child.

*deep breath*

I feel so bad for him.  No one should be in a situation where they are forever linked to someone they don’t want to be, especially a guy like J. who is a notorious commitment phobe.  Now his friend wants to get married.  She’s been dating him for 2 years and doesn’t know he is freaked out? 

I will never understand why men allow women to control their exposure to having children and I will never understand why women think having a baby will keep a man.  He will never be truly happy, although he is a good man and will be good to her and the baby.  She will never be truly happy because she still may never truly have him ever again.

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